Whew! This week has been an interesting week for us around the house. D had to head into work the morning of the 4th of July. He ended up in the Major’s office to be informed that he might be deployed, so when he arrived home he gave me the news. We in turn told Munchkin what might be in the future (yes, this is what works best for her; she doesn’t handle these types of “surprises” well.).
We found out late on Friday that he is indeed deploying. He leaves shortly to start his work-ups before he actually deploys. We don’t have a lot of details other than it will be a year long deployment. Hopefully, we’ll find out more soon. (Obviously, for security and safety reasons, I won’t be posting tons of information about that here. lol!)
What does this have to do with Marriage Monday and the Honor Your Husband Challenge? Everything. I decided that it was even more important that I honored my husband through supporting him this week. He needs that extra assurance that all will be well while he’s gone. Munchkin looks to me to set the mood for the time while he’s gone.
Overall, this week went well for the challenge. We had great meals each evening, and he always had something (even if it was leftovers) for lunch. According to him, I did a wonderful job in both words and actions of honoring him this week. The house slipped a little (I was dealing with yucky headaches this week), but overall it still stayed mostly tidy.
My final goal for last week was my relationship with Christ. As we all know, this is a constant challenge that needs to be faced daily. There were a few days that I struggled to get my devotions done as I was just tired that morning, but I did it. I know that I don’t get as much out of my devotions on those types of mornings, but I do believe that the Lord blesses the effort. My time in prayer this week has increased as I prayed for strength and wisdom.
This week, my goals will be rather “simple” as it will revolve around the basics. We’re preparing for him to leave, so the focus shifts a bit.
1) Continue to search for good food that he’ll be able to eat while gone. His dietary restrictions are a concern right now, so we need to find things that can supplement what he can’t eat. It should be interesting. We’ve found some yummy things, but we’ll keep searching.
2) Help him as he prepares. Give him complete support as he tries to get everything done. This also means not making too big of a honey do list before he goes. Since we’re still getting settled, the list could be long. I need to use discernment in what truly needs to be done.
3) Just be there for him. I honestly don’t know exactly what he’ll need from me this week. It may be me running around and picking things up or it may be staying home and getting things ready. Whatever the case may be, I need to be willing to do it for him. I need to set aside my wants/needs and put his first.
4) Continue putting my relationship with Christ first. I can not do this all on my own strength. I need God there to support me each step of the way. I need His wisdom to respond properly to whatever situations may arise. I need the knowledge that He’s there for us always.
My dear sweet friend I loved your post . Your love for your husband , family , marriage and friends shows through everyday. I will be here for you and praying for you all everyday.
I loved this part:
“What does this have to do with Marriage Monday and the Honor Your Husband Challenge? Everything. I decided that it was even more important that I honored my husband through supporting him this week. He needs that extra assurance that all will be well while he’s gone. Munchkin looks to me to set the mood for the time while he’s gone.
Overall, this week went well for the challenge. We had great meals each evening, and he always had something (even if it was leftovers) for lunch. According to him, I did a wonderful job in both words and actions of honoring him this week. The house slipped a little (I was dealing with yucky headaches this week), but overall it still stayed mostly tidy.”
You are doing such a great job. You are an inspriation to me.
Smiles , Blessings and Hugs,
Angel ( Angel Mama ) ():)
P.S. could you send me an email I need you address have to send you a note.
You know we are praying for you all. I am so proud of you for your strength for him and for munchkin. I find it encouraging how your unit tightens in to support his departure in whatever way necessary. Blessings as you grow this week and seek the Lord.
Sounds like you’re doing all the right things, it’s good to support our dhs and pray for them 🙂
I know you are busy enough but stop by my blog I have tagged you. But if you are too busy now I will understand.
Hugs,
Angel ():)
Your love for your husband truly shines through. I am praying for your marriage, bless you.
Wow! I am impressed by the tone of this post. It feels calm here. How can this be when one’s husband is preparing to leave for a year? I think the answer lies here:
Continue putting my relationship with Christ first. I can not do this all on my own strength. I need God there to support me each step of the way. I need His wisdom to respond properly to whatever situations may arise. I need the knowledge that He’s there for us always.
I will be praying for your family.
Kate
I am praying for you my friend. I know how this lifestyle can bring many uncertain changes at a moment’s notice and this news must come as a big surprise. I praise the Lord that He is giving you peace, clarity and a desire to honor your husband as he prepares to deploy. A year long deployement? Wow. I was unaware that the Corps was doing those now. I am hear for you if you need anything at all. Just email me and I would be happy to help in any way. Enjoy these days with your husband and daughter before he leaves. We are praying for his safety and your well being.
Blessings!
Bless you, your husband, and your whole family.
You are an amazing woman and MUCH can be learned by your example. Had it been me, I would have thrown a royal hissy fit and monster pity party-but as you said, a husband doesn’t need or want to see THOSE things. He needs support.
I am sorry he has to be deployed and away from you all after seemingly just returning. My prayers are with him as he travels, with you as your burdens are made heavy and with your sweetling, who loves her Papa so.
I cannot even imagine what you are heading into. You are so right to make every moment count. Your strength encourages me. Praying for you and your family!
Blessings,
Angela
Sounds like you are on the right track.I know this is hard for you too. I am praying for all of the family.
Wonderful week of choosing to support your husband instead of look to your own needs. I pray things will go smoothly as you all prepare for his time away and that the challenge continues to bless you.
You are a picture of support and strength – praying for you and your husband, and that the Lord continues to bless your marriage!
Oh, sweet Heather. I am so sorry to read that your beloved is being deployed. I will pray that the Lord will guide you this week to do extra special stuff for your Sweetheart. I know this time apart will not be easy for you and your family. I hope and pray that our Lord will protect your beloved while gone.
Please let me know if there is anything else I can do besides praying for you.
(((hugs)))
Thank you for welcoming me to the challenge. Christ will be your strength to do all that you need to do. Blessings 🙂
we are in the upstate of SC…. Not far from Virginia… let me know if there is anything we can do for you while your hubby is deployed! I know we are just bloggers out here, but what an awesome way to show our support to the troops than to help the family left behind! SERIOUSLY… let us know if you need anything!
WOW! As I read your post, it was apparent that I often overlook the blessings within my own marriage. Thank you for sharing your heart and concerns. Praying for you and your family.
Heavenly Voice
May God bless you and your family during this time!
My dad was in the Air Force for 21 years… we moved around, he was gone twice for a year at a time, once to Korea and once to Thailand.
I understand from a child’s perspective what it is to have your dad gone.
My prayers are with you.
Alida